"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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American Women

Yo'Mama

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This is my first time in the US where I've actually been looking to meet girls.

Thoughts:

1. American women don't seem any worse or any better than women anywhere else (and I've lived in a few different places).

2. Your country has a massive (pun intended) obesity problem. It's simply disgusting. I'm from the UK which isn't too far behind although I don't live there anymore.

3. This is a great country. I came here with all the usual prejudices that Brits have but it's just been awesome.

I know 2 and 3 don't really relate to women but wanted to throw them in there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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American women are ****, just like I'm sure the US influenced UK women are. It's just westernized feminized culture. Most US women are good for a quick pump and dump, but not much else. There are rare ones, that are single, but liek I said rare. And are single cause they are young(like 20) and still working on their future. If a women is older, she is single, cause she isn't worth a thing. Usually. But there will be a few older ones who just don't get out so much, those can be gems. Rare as well. For me the funnest women to interact with a culturally different women. I dated a Turkish girl, and she was so different than girls here, and she was so hot! I kinda screwed it up though. But then again, she wasn't going to stay here.

With your accent you would have an advantage though, women will probably love it, use it to your advantage, just don't expect anything more than short term./
 

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Borknagar.

I agree with you to be honest that the quality is low. It's just everywhere else seems to be as bad!

Well I haven't lived everywhere I suppose.

One thing I can say for sure though is don't entertain the idea of Asian women being better. They're worse if anything (at least not fat though).
 

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Depends, I don't have a whole lot of experience with them, my bud Layne is an expert though, he's 40 and Korean, and ****s 20 some year olds. I guess it might depend on if they are westernized or not. As long as they are westernized, color/race doesn't mean ****.
 

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I have some experience with Koreans but more with Chinese/Japanese. There are some lovely ones but they can be so calculating and devious.

Also there are many that will be all sweetness and light until marriage and then BOOM!

I'm going by personal experiences and looking at a lot of friends' situations.

At least American women speak English!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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And going out with a Japanese girl is like dating an overgrown child with particularly abundant pubic hair.
 
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