"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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American and European Women: same-same but different?

Marek

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To those who have dated in north America and central Europe: Are women different? If so, how?

Why I am asking is because from reading this forum I often get a feeling of "WTF kind of women are people dating?".

And assuming that most of this forum's traffic is from north America, I'm wondering whether it is because of that or because I date less drama-prone women in general.

But please: Only reply if you've dated on both continents. I am not interested in what you've heard or read.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HankHill

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My experience has been that initially they seem to be more stable and family oriented etc but after being in NA and dating in the same cesspool for 10+yrs they too catch the same Rabies.
 

ubercat

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Sure they pick up some bad habits but they still have the culture and multiple languages behind them.
 

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ALL women r the same regardless of where they come from.

Those who has fvcked various nationalities in different countries will know this as the truth. Don't be deluded into thinking otherwise.

The feminine imperative knows no boundaries - that overwhelming need to gain power over men via manipulation.

The only difference is the intensity (openly or covertly) between countries/cultures.
 
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