"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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American and European Women: same-same but different?

Marek

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To those who have dated in north America and central Europe: Are women different? If so, how?

Why I am asking is because from reading this forum I often get a feeling of "WTF kind of women are people dating?".

And assuming that most of this forum's traffic is from north America, I'm wondering whether it is because of that or because I date less drama-prone women in general.

But please: Only reply if you've dated on both continents. I am not interested in what you've heard or read.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HankHill

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My experience has been that initially they seem to be more stable and family oriented etc but after being in NA and dating in the same cesspool for 10+yrs they too catch the same Rabies.
 

ubercat

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Sure they pick up some bad habits but they still have the culture and multiple languages behind them.
 

Spaz

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ALL women r the same regardless of where they come from.

Those who has fvcked various nationalities in different countries will know this as the truth. Don't be deluded into thinking otherwise.

The feminine imperative knows no boundaries - that overwhelming need to gain power over men via manipulation.

The only difference is the intensity (openly or covertly) between countries/cultures.
 
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