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American accents in England

Kalel21

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Do american guys find their accents help them in sarging when i England? Or at least help in the approach?
 

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Not half as much as our accent helps in the US. Your girls LOVE IT! :woo:

It will help on a general level as your foriegn therefore you are seen as more unique.

Apart from that. I dont think US accents really turn our girls on :confused:


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thanks. anyone else have an opinion?
 

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Gorgeous girls in Australia love guys from the USA, just like Gorgeous girls from the USA love Australian guys, it is always easier to sarge for and allure the gorgeous babes when you are visiting another country. :yes:
 

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Thanks KoalaKing & Tomatoes. Why is this such a dead thread?
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can any american guy, that has travelled to the England give your opinion?

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why the hell would an english girl choose an american accent over an english accent? that is like asking someone to choose rosie o'donnel over jennifer aniston
 

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reallyfreakinlost said:
why the hell would an english girl choose an american accent over an english accent? that is like asking someone to choose rosie o'donnel over jennifer aniston
You're fvcking retarded. I was in the Marines, and was stationed as an embassy guard in London. Our American accents got more English chicks on our jock than you'll ever know.

So shut the fvck up. American women do dig a brit accent, but American accents are equally sought after in the UK.

P.s. Women really dig the Geico Gieco accent...
 
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Mr_knowit_all said:
You're fvcking retarded. I was in the Marines, and was stationed as an embassy guard in London. Our American accents got more English chicks on our jock than you'll ever know.

So shut the fvck up. American women do dig a brit accent, but American accents are equally sought after in the UK.

P.s. Women really dig the Geico Gieco accent...
You were in the Marines? Tell me, how many English chicks did you get?
I've never been to England, nor the Marines, so you do have more knowledge in this field. However, you can call me retarded all you want, all I was trying to say was that American accents sound god-awful compared to london accents
 

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Most english women dont find anything attractive about the US accent......Sorry lads. I even just asked a group of girls what there opinion was on it in my store. (Opinion opener :D )

They all said they didnt find anything attractive about it.

Come to Nottingham kalel. We will go out on the town and i will get you a girl. ;)



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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh, Mister Know-It-Ass... another thing...
Even if you did get girls to like you (which I'm sure never happens in the States), they probably did so because of your uniform not your accent. We're talking about accents in this thread, not uniforms, so take your ass back to england where you can get more shallow b*tches
 

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reallyfreakinlost said:
Oh, Mister Know-It-Ass... another thing...
Even if you did get girls to like you (which I'm sure never happens in the States), they probably did so because of your uniform not your accent. We're talking about accents in this thread, not uniforms, so take your ass back to england where you can get more shallow b*tches
Ok snaggletoothed limey, I was there even after I was in the Marines, and English chicks were still all over our jocks.

Most brit accents sound like ****. ****ney accents sound atrocious. So take your pasty faced asses back to your fantasy life and again..shut the fvck up.
 

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I went to london with a couple friends over the winter break. No, most english women dont find english accents alluring at all. the American pop culture market is extremely saturated there. They'll be playing american hip hop songs in clothing stores or selling albums of american bands, american movies are big there. So in a sense you could say they've seen it all.

However, me and my friends had a lot of luck with the French HB's there. Seemingly they appear more fascinated about America AND Americans than the Brits.
 
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Ok snaggletoothed limey, I was there even after I was in the Marines, and English chicks were still all over our jocks.

Most brit accents sound like ****. ****ney accents sound atrocious. So take your pasty faced asses back to your fantasy life and again..shut the fvck up.
Oh, before you acuse me of being British, my mom is Korean, my dad is Irish
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Well first off, I've never been there nor do I really care, because quite frankly england seems like the most boring european nation of all (no offense, but you guys are too like America).

However, when I talk to Europeans ESPECIALLY eastern europeans they all say that not many people around there like the english to much, one Romanian was like, "yea man, in europe everyone is pretty open, but england is kind of like here, they have like their own jokes, way of talking, way of life, alot more different from the rest of europe." He also said Germany is getting mroe americanized, but everywhere else people were open friendly and chatted up more. I know this doesn't have anything to do with accents just an interesting tidbit.

But I mean America and England are to close to be that impressive with accents, I mean even over here an English Accent would get owned by something like an Italian or French accent, english accents are becoming more prevalent ESPECIALLY in the north east, like PA, Mass, Vermont, NH, etc.
 

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey, you've gotta admire the english, they got some unique slang over there. Stuff you'll only learn there
 

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you guys are missing the point!

what do chicks find attractive....exotic men!
when you go to europe or UK with an american accent, you sound exotic...people will say... " look at this american guy, he sounds different from us, he lives in a whole different continent and can tell us about how life is in america, he dresses different."

that's why chicks in america find european guys attractive, because they're exotic..

and the last guy was right, in the UK, AMERICANS have the accent.

don't you think a chick in the UK would like to be known as the girl who nailed one of the few americans living there, rather than some loser brit who everyone knows?
 

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well we are certainly getting some replies now. I think hitchcock has a point. but lets se what others say
 

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I never really thought Americans had accents. I've felt as if people from other countries like Australia and England were the ones with the accents.
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
You're fvcking retarded. I was in the Marines, and was stationed as an embassy guard in London. Our American accents got more English chicks on our jock than you'll ever know.

So shut the fvck up. American women do dig a brit accent, but American accents are equally sought after in the UK.

P.s. Women really dig the Geico Gieco accent...
Umm, that may have had something to do with being in the marines and not so much your accent.
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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