"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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valmont

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Quick question;

I do ok when I go out intending to meet women, but when I run into a prospect when I absolutely don't expect it, it takes me too long to come up with something to say. Anyone has any tips? Any default things that you revert to when you are taken by surprise?

Example: walking through the hallway today, I stopped at the coke machine. As I picked up my drink, I locked eyes with this beautiful asian girl (8-9). As I was still brushing off a rare long night sleep, and no morning caffeine, I clammed up, and she moved on. As I proceeded in the elevator kicking myself for not comming up with something to say, I realized that I was alone with a beautiful (9) blonde girl, again all smiles. Same problem, by the time I could think of something to say, the short elevator ride was over (~ 4 floors). And I was left holding my Coke.

Anyway, I found myself wishing I had something I can default to when I can't think of something to say. Kinda like Joey's "How you doin'" in Friends. Anyone wants to share their default responses for when you must come up with something in a split second?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SDFUandDie

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Try " Hi, how are you doing" for starters lol

also.. I keep one line in my pocket for all occasions.

"Excuse me beautiful, by any chance do you have the time"

Oh and hid your watch

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