Quick question;
I do ok when I go out intending to meet women, but when I run into a prospect when I absolutely don't expect it, it takes me too long to come up with something to say. Anyone has any tips? Any default things that you revert to when you are taken by surprise?
Example: walking through the hallway today, I stopped at the coke machine. As I picked up my drink, I locked eyes with this beautiful asian girl (8-9). As I was still brushing off a rare long night sleep, and no morning caffeine, I clammed up, and she moved on. As I proceeded in the elevator kicking myself for not comming up with something to say, I realized that I was alone with a beautiful (9) blonde girl, again all smiles. Same problem, by the time I could think of something to say, the short elevator ride was over (~ 4 floors). And I was left holding my Coke.
Anyway, I found myself wishing I had something I can default to when I can't think of something to say. Kinda like Joey's "How you doin'" in Friends. Anyone wants to share their default responses for when you must come up with something in a split second?
I do ok when I go out intending to meet women, but when I run into a prospect when I absolutely don't expect it, it takes me too long to come up with something to say. Anyone has any tips? Any default things that you revert to when you are taken by surprise?
Example: walking through the hallway today, I stopped at the coke machine. As I picked up my drink, I locked eyes with this beautiful asian girl (8-9). As I was still brushing off a rare long night sleep, and no morning caffeine, I clammed up, and she moved on. As I proceeded in the elevator kicking myself for not comming up with something to say, I realized that I was alone with a beautiful (9) blonde girl, again all smiles. Same problem, by the time I could think of something to say, the short elevator ride was over (~ 4 floors). And I was left holding my Coke.
Anyway, I found myself wishing I had something I can default to when I can't think of something to say. Kinda like Joey's "How you doin'" in Friends. Anyone wants to share their default responses for when you must come up with something in a split second?
