"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oh yeah something i saw the otherday i was in a food shop and a guy in a wheelchair was sitting down with his dad and little brother and sister.
im eating not paying much attention when a pretty chinese girl walks in and sits near me. b4 i notice guy in wheelchair rolls over and says in a really really slow voice.

him"hi there where are you from china,phillpines?"
Her looking wary as his dad is looking on smiling "hi im chinese"
him "ok so how old are you and wats your name"
her " im 23 and my names ?????"
him " 23 youre older than me im only 21" "your a pretty little thing innit"
she starts blushing madly
him " so how bout you let me take you for a drink soon as youre man aint about"
her " trust me if i had a man or didnt i would in a sec but im married" she flashed a ring.
him " alright see you about"

then he left with his family.

i turn to her and smiled to which she told me" ive never seen a guy who has such smooth words and confidence" she tells me if she wasnt married she would definetly have gave him her number.

i sat there and made it my point to talk to anygirl i see from now on and never wimp out. if this guy in a wheelchair and funny speech can have the confidence to chat up a definet hb8 in a packed burgerking with such smoothness wat excuse do the rest have

hes my hero now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Extra credit to him for doing it with his dad, and siblings there!
 

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Good story Londonzen. Yup, looks matter. :rolleyes:

To the guys who keep insisting that looks matter to attractive women, go take an ice cold shower and wake up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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