"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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londonzen

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oh yeah something i saw the otherday i was in a food shop and a guy in a wheelchair was sitting down with his dad and little brother and sister.
im eating not paying much attention when a pretty chinese girl walks in and sits near me. b4 i notice guy in wheelchair rolls over and says in a really really slow voice.

him"hi there where are you from china,phillpines?"
Her looking wary as his dad is looking on smiling "hi im chinese"
him "ok so how old are you and wats your name"
her " im 23 and my names ?????"
him " 23 youre older than me im only 21" "your a pretty little thing innit"
she starts blushing madly
him " so how bout you let me take you for a drink soon as youre man aint about"
her " trust me if i had a man or didnt i would in a sec but im married" she flashed a ring.
him " alright see you about"

then he left with his family.

i turn to her and smiled to which she told me" ive never seen a guy who has such smooth words and confidence" she tells me if she wasnt married she would definetly have gave him her number.

i sat there and made it my point to talk to anygirl i see from now on and never wimp out. if this guy in a wheelchair and funny speech can have the confidence to chat up a definet hb8 in a packed burgerking with such smoothness wat excuse do the rest have

hes my hero now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Extra credit to him for doing it with his dad, and siblings there!
 

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Good story Londonzen. Yup, looks matter. :rolleyes:

To the guys who keep insisting that looks matter to attractive women, go take an ice cold shower and wake up.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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