"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oh yeah something i saw the otherday i was in a food shop and a guy in a wheelchair was sitting down with his dad and little brother and sister.
im eating not paying much attention when a pretty chinese girl walks in and sits near me. b4 i notice guy in wheelchair rolls over and says in a really really slow voice.

him"hi there where are you from china,phillpines?"
Her looking wary as his dad is looking on smiling "hi im chinese"
him "ok so how old are you and wats your name"
her " im 23 and my names ?????"
him " 23 youre older than me im only 21" "your a pretty little thing innit"
she starts blushing madly
him " so how bout you let me take you for a drink soon as youre man aint about"
her " trust me if i had a man or didnt i would in a sec but im married" she flashed a ring.
him " alright see you about"

then he left with his family.

i turn to her and smiled to which she told me" ive never seen a guy who has such smooth words and confidence" she tells me if she wasnt married she would definetly have gave him her number.

i sat there and made it my point to talk to anygirl i see from now on and never wimp out. if this guy in a wheelchair and funny speech can have the confidence to chat up a definet hb8 in a packed burgerking with such smoothness wat excuse do the rest have

hes my hero now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Extra credit to him for doing it with his dad, and siblings there!
 
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Good story Londonzen. Yup, looks matter. :rolleyes:

To the guys who keep insisting that looks matter to attractive women, go take an ice cold shower and wake up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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