"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok was on the phone with gf, without thinking, I accidentally told her that I had told my best friend friend about how she had cheated on one of her ex-boyfriends. She got really pissed, said that was her personal information, and that she had trusted me to keep it to myself. Told her I was really sorry, and that my best friend was someone I always confided in and trusted, but that she was right, I shouldn't have told him.

Now she sends me text message:
"MAYBE WE SHOULD TAKE A BREAK. FRUSTRATED"

now what? any advice?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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was thinking of sending this email:

I am very sorry about what I told Nick. You are right, that is not my personal information to give out. He is my one friend that I seem to always confide in, and I did it without thinking. We were talking about what you were doing this weekend, and he was asking me if I trusted you. I told him about you going to see Joe and about the past that you two had, and how I was ok with you going to see him, because I do trust you. I know I made a huge mistake by telling him that. I was trying to explain how I trusted you, and in doing so, violated your trust. I know you are very frustrated with me right now, and I understand if you need a break.
 
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Giovanni Casanova

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Now send her this message:

"Get over it you uptight, anal retentive drama queen. My friend doesn't give two sh*ts what you did or didn't do to past boyfriends. So suck it up. If you want a break over something as stupid as that then don't let the door hit you on your way out. Repeat after me... nobody gives a f*ck. Yours truly, DJMonster."
 
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Does her EX not know she cheated? Man its one thing to cheat and end the relationship. Its another to cheat and keeping it going, because who knows what sh1t she is bringing back. In fact why are with a girl who is like that, cheaters always cheat again. Take a break? Forget that, break it off and find someone better.

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Write what DJ Gio stated - and another thing....say "No" to cheating hos!!

Your friend should have opened your eyes with his question - your girl knows that she is not trustworthy and now so do your friends know!! She can no longer pretend!! Don't send your symp e-mail to her!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Are you sure your not leaving anything out? It seems like she's either WAY over-reacting, or there's something else...


Either way, if she wants a break, give her one. Permanently.
 
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