"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Am I wrong not to ask for the number of a hot+boring chick?

Chamber36

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I met a chick at school. She looks like a 7, has potential. When I talked to her she seemed a little sheltered and boring nerdy, despite the fact she'd grown up in Amsterdam.

Now TBH I don't know anything about her. I only talked to her for about 20 minutes. She passed the ball to me when she said: "we have no classes at all next week!!". I knew this meant that I should ask for the number and see if she wanted to hang out. However I figured she was not my type. Decided I would use her as more of a gatekeeper, a chick to get access to other chicks. She had a bit of a nerdy vibe, but she was at least a 7. My conscience just wouldn't allow me to ask for the number. My conscience stood in my way. Is there something wrong with my inner game? Or am I just not interested in boring chicks??

My roommate says I should have just asked for the number.

I will likely be seeing her in other classes this week and then I could also just ask for the number.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The only person that needs to decides whether or not your personal decision are right or wrong is you. It's futile asking someone else for their opinion. If you aren't feeling it, you aren't feeling it, end of discussion.
 
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Chamber36

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Yeah. She seemed to like me though. I figure I might as well give her a chance, plus I'm sure my johnson wouldn't mind a close encounter with her clam.

So I'm thinking of asking the number under the pretext that we study together instead of the pretext that we hang out. That way I've got the possibility of studying with her as well, and I can remain mysterious in my intentions.
 

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If you ain't feeling it, you ain't feeling it. Do what girls do to us, and Friend Zone the living shyt out of her. Study with her, etc, and perhaps she has some friends. Expand your social circle.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think you kinda dropped the ball here bro... I mean sometimes people are feeling low and are boring... but as time goes on you get to be like "WOW, who is this new person here? She's amazing!". And, if you like someone that someone will like you more! So give her a chance... Remember she is a girl and girls always have a couple of weapons in her arsenal, she may not have had the time to use them yet. ;)
 
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