When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Meet her once and go from there.blackbelt2k said:So there is this hb-5..lol, naw she's just a fat chick that has been trying to talk to me on myspace.. so anyway i was gonna give this girl the cold shoulder, but i noticed she has some really pretty friends she parties with.. now, my question is, should i use this girl, persay, to get in good with her cute friends? sort of not burning a bridge to a potential cutie....what would yall do in this situation..
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lol, i don't know either :nervous: ... this is what just transpired a few min ago:dotcomwill said:^ damn dude, same exact thing is happening to me tonight. I already told the fat Myspace b!tch we are going out as friends and yadda yadda. She's like cool. I' gonna ask her if she has any friends that might want to date me but I'm not sure how to ask it. lol.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Using people is a pretty fu*ked up thing to do.blackbelt2k said:should i use this girl, persay, to get in good with her cute friends? sort of not burning a bridge to a potential cutie....what would yall do in this situation..