Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Meet her once and go from there.blackbelt2k said:So there is this hb-5..lol, naw she's just a fat chick that has been trying to talk to me on myspace.. so anyway i was gonna give this girl the cold shoulder, but i noticed she has some really pretty friends she parties with.. now, my question is, should i use this girl, persay, to get in good with her cute friends? sort of not burning a bridge to a potential cutie....what would yall do in this situation..
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
lol, i don't know either :nervous: ... this is what just transpired a few min ago:dotcomwill said:^ damn dude, same exact thing is happening to me tonight. I already told the fat Myspace b!tch we are going out as friends and yadda yadda. She's like cool. I' gonna ask her if she has any friends that might want to date me but I'm not sure how to ask it. lol.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Using people is a pretty fu*ked up thing to do.blackbelt2k said:should i use this girl, persay, to get in good with her cute friends? sort of not burning a bridge to a potential cutie....what would yall do in this situation..