You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Meet her once and go from there.blackbelt2k said:So there is this hb-5..lol, naw she's just a fat chick that has been trying to talk to me on myspace.. so anyway i was gonna give this girl the cold shoulder, but i noticed she has some really pretty friends she parties with.. now, my question is, should i use this girl, persay, to get in good with her cute friends? sort of not burning a bridge to a potential cutie....what would yall do in this situation..
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lol, i don't know either :nervous: ... this is what just transpired a few min ago:dotcomwill said:^ damn dude, same exact thing is happening to me tonight. I already told the fat Myspace b!tch we are going out as friends and yadda yadda. She's like cool. I' gonna ask her if she has any friends that might want to date me but I'm not sure how to ask it. lol.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Using people is a pretty fu*ked up thing to do.blackbelt2k said:should i use this girl, persay, to get in good with her cute friends? sort of not burning a bridge to a potential cutie....what would yall do in this situation..