SELF-MASTERY
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Skel said:your hot and i would hit that
:moon:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Skel said:your hot and i would hit that
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I like this. Ladies are still crazy about a sharp dressed man. If you resemble Chris Farley in any way, grooming and style are not the first thing on the menu. It's all about attitude.Embrace said:Work with what you can work with.
Posture, attitude, grooming, style, etc.
Ditto. Don't let some materialistic over-rated skanks get the best of you. If they gun for your looks and play the "he's uglier than sin" bullshyte, they have issues.rocky_mtn said:don't let some chicks try to cut you down. You're a normal good looking guy, like most of us here not supermodels but just average normal people. Your confidence is your game not your looks, get a tan, get some good clothes, belt, watch, shoes and you're on your top game. We are all just regular people,its just how you present yourself. That little bit extra is what sets a PUA from the AFC, get in the mindset and go.,...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
:crackup:WC2 said:Trust me, you're probably better looking than 90% of the bozos on this board.
lol what do ya mean by that?CloneWolf said::crackup:
Just don't sneak up on a glass of water!
Just a joke, not directed at you. LOLDJwanna said:lol what do ya mean by that?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Nox said:While we're on the same topic. How about my pictures that i took from my cellphone.
http://img146.imageshack.us/img146/2033/meyc3.jpg
and
http://img146.imageshack.us/img146/5930/me2rq6.jpg
Yes! You can't tell anything from a face and even if you do it doesn't matter as you can't improve it more than with a shave and some skincare products. What's interesting when it comes to looks is the entire image you portray...jonwon said:If you want outside advice, dress up in your pulling gear and we can give better opinions then.