SELF-MASTERY
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Skel said:your hot and i would hit that
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Skel said:your hot and i would hit that
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I like this. Ladies are still crazy about a sharp dressed man. If you resemble Chris Farley in any way, grooming and style are not the first thing on the menu. It's all about attitude.Embrace said:Work with what you can work with.
Posture, attitude, grooming, style, etc.
Ditto. Don't let some materialistic over-rated skanks get the best of you. If they gun for your looks and play the "he's uglier than sin" bullshyte, they have issues.rocky_mtn said:don't let some chicks try to cut you down. You're a normal good looking guy, like most of us here not supermodels but just average normal people. Your confidence is your game not your looks, get a tan, get some good clothes, belt, watch, shoes and you're on your top game. We are all just regular people,its just how you present yourself. That little bit extra is what sets a PUA from the AFC, get in the mindset and go.,...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
:crackup:WC2 said:Trust me, you're probably better looking than 90% of the bozos on this board.
lol what do ya mean by that?CloneWolf said::crackup:
Just don't sneak up on a glass of water!
Just a joke, not directed at you. LOLDJwanna said:lol what do ya mean by that?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Nox said:While we're on the same topic. How about my pictures that i took from my cellphone.
http://img146.imageshack.us/img146/2033/meyc3.jpg
and
http://img146.imageshack.us/img146/5930/me2rq6.jpg
Yes! You can't tell anything from a face and even if you do it doesn't matter as you can't improve it more than with a shave and some skincare products. What's interesting when it comes to looks is the entire image you portray...jonwon said:If you want outside advice, dress up in your pulling gear and we can give better opinions then.