"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Am I too much of an ass/manipulative/pimpish?

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Sometimes I think I go too far, and this is not a joke.

I tend to feel sympathy because I wasn't always at such a high status.

I really actually realize that to get where I'm at... I have supressed people, if people feel bad about themselves, I make them feel worse because I act like I'm too good. But maybe I just am, and the people I supress I do it because they want to supress me and I don't judge? I dont know that's been what I go by.... "I'm just trying to be my best, so don't even try and mess with me."

I play football, have money, have good looks/high/growing status, but I really honestly feel guilty and don't know why.

I know that I'm being a REAL MAN because I'm seriously almost like a pimp, I just suck the attention out've these girls and then ditch them, looking for hotter ones to **** with.

Granted, maybe it's just because I havent found a girl that doesn't completly submit to me but keeps me satisfied?

Maybe I just need to have my status grow higher to get *her*.

The truth is... I honestly feel no love. And it scares me....

It's like... when I had love I was also depressed and a loser in my eyes.

But... when I have status, looks, girls that are attracted to my extreme assholwe ways... I have what I "wanted" then.. but No love..

Confused...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ima str8 up pimp said:
I know that I'm being a REAL MAN because I'm seriously almost like a pimp

I think this sums up your cluelessness, you've got a lot to learn young man.
 
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****... thanks, I really wasn't raised the best, but I'm not sure if your opinion matters either, that depends... what do I "have to learn?" I get the job done like a man should right? Guys like at our school are like this, but I dont know if they feel ANY remorse.
 

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That being a real man has a lot more to it than being "seriously almost like a pimp"

It's obvious you are still in high school and guess what? I was the same way in high school and there really isn't a problem with it. I don't understand why you are looking for love, live it up you are young.
 
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