"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Am I too much of an ass/manipulative/pimpish?

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Sometimes I think I go too far, and this is not a joke.

I tend to feel sympathy because I wasn't always at such a high status.

I really actually realize that to get where I'm at... I have supressed people, if people feel bad about themselves, I make them feel worse because I act like I'm too good. But maybe I just am, and the people I supress I do it because they want to supress me and I don't judge? I dont know that's been what I go by.... "I'm just trying to be my best, so don't even try and mess with me."

I play football, have money, have good looks/high/growing status, but I really honestly feel guilty and don't know why.

I know that I'm being a REAL MAN because I'm seriously almost like a pimp, I just suck the attention out've these girls and then ditch them, looking for hotter ones to **** with.

Granted, maybe it's just because I havent found a girl that doesn't completly submit to me but keeps me satisfied?

Maybe I just need to have my status grow higher to get *her*.

The truth is... I honestly feel no love. And it scares me....

It's like... when I had love I was also depressed and a loser in my eyes.

But... when I have status, looks, girls that are attracted to my extreme assholwe ways... I have what I "wanted" then.. but No love..

Confused...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ima str8 up pimp said:
I know that I'm being a REAL MAN because I'm seriously almost like a pimp

I think this sums up your cluelessness, you've got a lot to learn young man.
 
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****... thanks, I really wasn't raised the best, but I'm not sure if your opinion matters either, that depends... what do I "have to learn?" I get the job done like a man should right? Guys like at our school are like this, but I dont know if they feel ANY remorse.
 

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That being a real man has a lot more to it than being "seriously almost like a pimp"

It's obvious you are still in high school and guess what? I was the same way in high school and there really isn't a problem with it. I don't understand why you are looking for love, live it up you are young.
 
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