I'm beginning to think I may be too much of a jerk and you guys can maybe tell me if I am. I make fun of her and tease her a lot but I'm just joking and she knows that. I tell her to call me sometimes but it's not like I'm bossing her around or anything. I dont' think I'm taking it too far but I may be. I know girls like to feel special and I know she probably doesn't feel that way if I make fun of her a lot. She jokes back too. I've only complemented her once the whole time we've gone out and all it was was me telling her that I like her laugh. Maybe I should complement her more I don't know.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Am I too much of a jerk?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My 2c...
1) compliment her more.. yes... not every day... but definatelly more often than u are doing at the moment
2) teasing is good, just try not to do it too much, or to a point where she might get hurt by what u say
3) By complimenting her, u ARE making her feel special, so do it more often, but not TOO much.
anything else?
1) compliment her more.. yes... not every day... but definatelly more often than u are doing at the moment
2) teasing is good, just try not to do it too much, or to a point where she might get hurt by what u say
3) By complimenting her, u ARE making her feel special, so do it more often, but not TOO much.
anything else?
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Are you for real!?
I cant believe you just said that.
I cant believe you just said that.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ImSoHorny005
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WTF are you talking about? About the compliments? If so, you have MUCH to learn...
Jesus. Who cares what she thinks, what do you think? Right now you're acting like a whiner. And we all know no girl likes a whiner. You do what you want to do, if she's attracted to you, you're in the score zone, if she isn't, best be moving on to some new chick.
You're overanalyzing like many of the guys here do. You gotta roll with it and not be concerned about what she thinks.
By being all concerned you are just killing you confidence and you're killing the level of attraction you are emitting. What happened to BEING A MAN and DOING WHAT I WANT TO DO.
My advice. Chill out. You're dating her already, what more do you want? If she's not satisfied, she'll leave. And there's nothing you can do about it, you just aren't the type for her.
Now, if you aren't the confident, masculine male, you do have a problem. And that's a self-improvement problem that you have to work out on your own.
Either roll with it, or moan about it.
You're overanalyzing like many of the guys here do. You gotta roll with it and not be concerned about what she thinks.
By being all concerned you are just killing you confidence and you're killing the level of attraction you are emitting. What happened to BEING A MAN and DOING WHAT I WANT TO DO.
My advice. Chill out. You're dating her already, what more do you want? If she's not satisfied, she'll leave. And there's nothing you can do about it, you just aren't the type for her.
Now, if you aren't the confident, masculine male, you do have a problem. And that's a self-improvement problem that you have to work out on your own.
Either roll with it, or moan about it.
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Yes.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Thats about as simple as I can put it.
Clarifying things...
Happiness Renewed said:
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
I asked you who you were reffering to, and your answer was "yes" .... I dont know about you, but that makes NO sence to me whatsoever!
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Happiness Renewed said:
Umm.... I still think that you dont make any sence... so if you would please be so kind as to just answer my original question of "Who are you reffering to? me or bud_2005?"?
Thanx
Laterz...
Happiness Renewed said:
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Happiness Renewed said:
I asked you who you were reffering to, and your answer was "yes" .... I dont know about you, but that makes NO sence to me whatsoever!
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Happiness Renewed said:
Umm.... I still think that you dont make any sence... so if you would please be so kind as to just answer my original question of "Who are you reffering to? me or bud_2005?"?
Thanx
Laterz...
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Lets just stop before we create confusion.
Oh, true.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.