I'm beginning to think I may be too much of a jerk and you guys can maybe tell me if I am. I make fun of her and tease her a lot but I'm just joking and she knows that. I tell her to call me sometimes but it's not like I'm bossing her around or anything. I dont' think I'm taking it too far but I may be. I know girls like to feel special and I know she probably doesn't feel that way if I make fun of her a lot. She jokes back too. I've only complemented her once the whole time we've gone out and all it was was me telling her that I like her laugh. Maybe I should complement her more I don't know.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Am I too much of a jerk?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
My 2c...
1) compliment her more.. yes... not every day... but definatelly more often than u are doing at the moment
2) teasing is good, just try not to do it too much, or to a point where she might get hurt by what u say
3) By complimenting her, u ARE making her feel special, so do it more often, but not TOO much.
anything else?
1) compliment her more.. yes... not every day... but definatelly more often than u are doing at the moment
2) teasing is good, just try not to do it too much, or to a point where she might get hurt by what u say
3) By complimenting her, u ARE making her feel special, so do it more often, but not TOO much.
anything else?
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Are you for real!?
I cant believe you just said that.
I cant believe you just said that.
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ImSoHorny005
Don Juan
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WTF are you talking about? About the compliments? If so, you have MUCH to learn...
Jesus. Who cares what she thinks, what do you think? Right now you're acting like a whiner. And we all know no girl likes a whiner. You do what you want to do, if she's attracted to you, you're in the score zone, if she isn't, best be moving on to some new chick.
You're overanalyzing like many of the guys here do. You gotta roll with it and not be concerned about what she thinks.
By being all concerned you are just killing you confidence and you're killing the level of attraction you are emitting. What happened to BEING A MAN and DOING WHAT I WANT TO DO.
My advice. Chill out. You're dating her already, what more do you want? If she's not satisfied, she'll leave. And there's nothing you can do about it, you just aren't the type for her.
Now, if you aren't the confident, masculine male, you do have a problem. And that's a self-improvement problem that you have to work out on your own.
Either roll with it, or moan about it.
You're overanalyzing like many of the guys here do. You gotta roll with it and not be concerned about what she thinks.
By being all concerned you are just killing you confidence and you're killing the level of attraction you are emitting. What happened to BEING A MAN and DOING WHAT I WANT TO DO.
My advice. Chill out. You're dating her already, what more do you want? If she's not satisfied, she'll leave. And there's nothing you can do about it, you just aren't the type for her.
Now, if you aren't the confident, masculine male, you do have a problem. And that's a self-improvement problem that you have to work out on your own.
Either roll with it, or moan about it.
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Yes.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Thats about as simple as I can put it.
Clarifying things...
Happiness Renewed said:
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
I asked you who you were reffering to, and your answer was "yes" .... I dont know about you, but that makes NO sence to me whatsoever!
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Happiness Renewed said:
Umm.... I still think that you dont make any sence... so if you would please be so kind as to just answer my original question of "Who are you reffering to? me or bud_2005?"?
Thanx
Laterz...
Happiness Renewed said:
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Happiness Renewed said:
I asked you who you were reffering to, and your answer was "yes" .... I dont know about you, but that makes NO sence to me whatsoever!
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Happiness Renewed said:
Umm.... I still think that you dont make any sence... so if you would please be so kind as to just answer my original question of "Who are you reffering to? me or bud_2005?"?
Thanx
Laterz...
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Lets just stop before we create confusion.
Oh, true.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.