I'm beginning to think I may be too much of a jerk and you guys can maybe tell me if I am. I make fun of her and tease her a lot but I'm just joking and she knows that. I tell her to call me sometimes but it's not like I'm bossing her around or anything. I dont' think I'm taking it too far but I may be. I know girls like to feel special and I know she probably doesn't feel that way if I make fun of her a lot. She jokes back too. I've only complemented her once the whole time we've gone out and all it was was me telling her that I like her laugh. Maybe I should complement her more I don't know.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Am I too much of a jerk?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My 2c...
1) compliment her more.. yes... not every day... but definatelly more often than u are doing at the moment
2) teasing is good, just try not to do it too much, or to a point where she might get hurt by what u say
3) By complimenting her, u ARE making her feel special, so do it more often, but not TOO much.
anything else?
1) compliment her more.. yes... not every day... but definatelly more often than u are doing at the moment
2) teasing is good, just try not to do it too much, or to a point where she might get hurt by what u say
3) By complimenting her, u ARE making her feel special, so do it more often, but not TOO much.
anything else?
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Are you for real!?
I cant believe you just said that.
I cant believe you just said that.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ImSoHorny005
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WTF are you talking about? About the compliments? If so, you have MUCH to learn...
Jesus. Who cares what she thinks, what do you think? Right now you're acting like a whiner. And we all know no girl likes a whiner. You do what you want to do, if she's attracted to you, you're in the score zone, if she isn't, best be moving on to some new chick.
You're overanalyzing like many of the guys here do. You gotta roll with it and not be concerned about what she thinks.
By being all concerned you are just killing you confidence and you're killing the level of attraction you are emitting. What happened to BEING A MAN and DOING WHAT I WANT TO DO.
My advice. Chill out. You're dating her already, what more do you want? If she's not satisfied, she'll leave. And there's nothing you can do about it, you just aren't the type for her.
Now, if you aren't the confident, masculine male, you do have a problem. And that's a self-improvement problem that you have to work out on your own.
Either roll with it, or moan about it.
You're overanalyzing like many of the guys here do. You gotta roll with it and not be concerned about what she thinks.
By being all concerned you are just killing you confidence and you're killing the level of attraction you are emitting. What happened to BEING A MAN and DOING WHAT I WANT TO DO.
My advice. Chill out. You're dating her already, what more do you want? If she's not satisfied, she'll leave. And there's nothing you can do about it, you just aren't the type for her.
Now, if you aren't the confident, masculine male, you do have a problem. And that's a self-improvement problem that you have to work out on your own.
Either roll with it, or moan about it.
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Yes.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Thats about as simple as I can put it.
Clarifying things...
Happiness Renewed said:
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
I asked you who you were reffering to, and your answer was "yes" .... I dont know about you, but that makes NO sence to me whatsoever!
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Happiness Renewed said:
Umm.... I still think that you dont make any sence... so if you would please be so kind as to just answer my original question of "Who are you reffering to? me or bud_2005?"?
Thanx
Laterz...
Happiness Renewed said:
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Happiness Renewed said:
I asked you who you were reffering to, and your answer was "yes" .... I dont know about you, but that makes NO sence to me whatsoever!
~ªêQµïTª$~ said:
Happiness Renewed said:
Umm.... I still think that you dont make any sence... so if you would please be so kind as to just answer my original question of "Who are you reffering to? me or bud_2005?"?
Thanx
Laterz...
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
Lets just stop before we create confusion.
Oh, true.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.