"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I to picky?

skinnydart

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Ok, I really liked this girl and now I've started going out with her but for some reason, I've lost the attraction for her I once. I seem to have this with a lot of people. I think I'm just to picky, like they have to be perfect looks.

What do you guys think, here is a pic of her, am just to picky?
http://www.newbeginning.biz/girl.jpg
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't think she's very attractive in that picture, but we all have different tastes. I think she'd look a lot better if she got a tan.
 

Dukester

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personally i think she is fairly attractive. i give her around a 7.5. she does need to do something and she'd be an 8 no doubt. tan, makeup, hair, i dunno.

i think she looks good. if you're looking for a LTR and dump chicks cuz they dont meet your standards then you have to lower them. i hate saying that, but maybe you are too picky.
if your looking just to fvck (and i dont think you are) then whats wrong w/ that chick?
hell, i'd bang the other one too

all guys have diff. tastes, but looking for that perfect 10 everytime aint gonna happen. i kno lowering your standards makes you "less DJ" but thats bs. are you a 10, probably not, so stop looking for perfect 10's bud.

Good luck...
 

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Being picky, or thinking that girl isn't good enough implies you think you can get somebody better. Can you? Or is that the best you can do (no negative connotation/tone here)? We don't know anything about her except what she looks like (and I don't see anything extremely out of place here), so we can't make that decision for you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When you buy a new car - its great. After about a month its just a car.

Even if you go out with HB10... after a month you won't see that person as a HB10 since you'll:
Have smelled her fart.
Watched her burp.
Heard her snort like a pig.
etc...

I agree with another poster... "what do *you* want?" If you base your entire perception of a relationship on looks then you'll never have a long one. If thats what you want then fine - if you want a longer term relationship then you'll need to figure out what are looking for from your GF - interests, dependability, humour, support, etc...

The girl is fine looking to me.
 

jason86

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ill tell u one thing. i used to go for girls who wernt what i really wanted but were ok but still not what i wanted. they were 6 or 7s but because they showed me interest, i used to think eh the girl is noticing me, lets go for her.

but since i saw this site, my mindset has changed and i only go for 8 and 9s. i just ignore the ones who want me but arent all that. looking at those pics, none of them are worth it. settle for the best.
 

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Unconsciously you may be protecting yourself from something.

Nobody is perfect, therefore you will never settle for anyone, is that what you want?

It is quite common for gay men in denial to keep on searching for the 'perfect' and therefore unobtainable women.
 
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