Am I the problem...plus myspace problem

[sandman6991]

I'm not a moron by any means...nor a social retard...this is what baffles me the most. For some reason, I just cannot win when it comes to girls. All other aspects of my life are, well, perfect. I'm on the football team (3-0 baby), all the guys like me, I have tons of friends, I have a great time with everyone and hang out with my friends a ton, my GPA is a 4.3, and I'm a happy person with a good family life. Nothing should really be holding me back, and I don't know what is.

Maybe it's my appearance and/or style...I could use some advice on that. I obviously can't judge my own appearance, since my ego will come into play, and all of my friends will never give an honest assessment (and I wouldn't do the same for them...you don't be a jerk to your friends...is the way I see it) but right now...I'm looking for some HONEST feedback on how I look and how I can improve.

Which brings me to my second point...there is this girl on myspace...through bad luck...I've ran out of options at my school..but I'm not done yet...I'm going to find a date soon...I've found this hot girl on myspace...I would really like a chance to game her...and I'm wondering what you all think would be the best way to open her? After the opening I can take it from there, or you can offer advice for that too, since it always helps.

My appearance dictates how girls respond on myspace, so I need to know if I have a shot based on my looks and then how to go from there.

Here are some pics, the first is my default picture

http://render2.snapfish.com/render2...?*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6gXPnP|Rup6lQQ|/of=50,590,442

http://render2.snapfish.com/render2...?*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6gXPnl|Rup6lQQ|/of=50,590,442

I'm #85...

http://render2.snapfish.com/render2...?*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6gXPn0|Rup6lQQ|/of=50,590,442

 

[WesCottII]

There's nothing wrong with your looks dude.

Have a look at hairstlyes like spiking your hair, or growing it, and hit the gym, thats the only advice I can find.

As far as the women go, as you said, you have an AMAZING life, and women should be a compliment to a good life, not the focus of it. Keep going with all your other stuff, and let the women come. The more you chase something, the more it'll escape.

 

[nicenomore]

gotta agree with above....