"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Am I the problem...plus myspace problem

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sandman6991

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I'm not a moron by any means...nor a social retard...this is what baffles me the most. For some reason, I just cannot win when it comes to girls. All other aspects of my life are, well, perfect. I'm on the football team (3-0 baby), all the guys like me, I have tons of friends, I have a great time with everyone and hang out with my friends a ton, my GPA is a 4.3, and I'm a happy person with a good family life. Nothing should really be holding me back, and I don't know what is.

Maybe it's my appearance and/or style...I could use some advice on that. I obviously can't judge my own appearance, since my ego will come into play, and all of my friends will never give an honest assessment (and I wouldn't do the same for them...you don't be a jerk to your friends...is the way I see it) but right now...I'm looking for some HONEST feedback on how I look and how I can improve.

Which brings me to my second point...there is this girl on myspace...through bad luck...I've ran out of options at my school..but I'm not done yet...I'm going to find a date soon...I've found this hot girl on myspace...I would really like a chance to game her...and I'm wondering what you all think would be the best way to open her? After the opening I can take it from there, or you can offer advice for that too, since it always helps.

My appearance dictates how girls respond on myspace, so I need to know if I have a shot based on my looks and then how to go from there.

Here are some pics, the first is my default picture

http://render2.snapfish.com/render2...?*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6gXPnP|Rup6lQQ|/of=50,590,442

http://render2.snapfish.com/render2...?*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6gXPnl|Rup6lQQ|/of=50,590,442

I'm #85...

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WesCottII

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There's nothing wrong with your looks dude.

Have a look at hairstlyes like spiking your hair, or growing it, and hit the gym, thats the only advice I can find.

As far as the women go, as you said, you have an AMAZING life, and women should be a compliment to a good life, not the focus of it. Keep going with all your other stuff, and let the women come. The more you chase something, the more it'll escape.
 
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