"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Am I the problem...plus myspace problem

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sandman6991

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I'm not a moron by any means...nor a social retard...this is what baffles me the most. For some reason, I just cannot win when it comes to girls. All other aspects of my life are, well, perfect. I'm on the football team (3-0 baby), all the guys like me, I have tons of friends, I have a great time with everyone and hang out with my friends a ton, my GPA is a 4.3, and I'm a happy person with a good family life. Nothing should really be holding me back, and I don't know what is.

Maybe it's my appearance and/or style...I could use some advice on that. I obviously can't judge my own appearance, since my ego will come into play, and all of my friends will never give an honest assessment (and I wouldn't do the same for them...you don't be a jerk to your friends...is the way I see it) but right now...I'm looking for some HONEST feedback on how I look and how I can improve.

Which brings me to my second point...there is this girl on myspace...through bad luck...I've ran out of options at my school..but I'm not done yet...I'm going to find a date soon...I've found this hot girl on myspace...I would really like a chance to game her...and I'm wondering what you all think would be the best way to open her? After the opening I can take it from there, or you can offer advice for that too, since it always helps.

My appearance dictates how girls respond on myspace, so I need to know if I have a shot based on my looks and then how to go from there.

Here are some pics, the first is my default picture

http://render2.snapfish.com/render2...?*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6gXPnP|Rup6lQQ|/of=50,590,442

http://render2.snapfish.com/render2...?*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6gXPnl|Rup6lQQ|/of=50,590,442

I'm #85...

http://render2.snapfish.com/render2...?*KUp7BHSHqqy7XH6gXPn0|Rup6lQQ|/of=50,590,442
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WesCottII

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There's nothing wrong with your looks dude.

Have a look at hairstlyes like spiking your hair, or growing it, and hit the gym, thats the only advice I can find.

As far as the women go, as you said, you have an AMAZING life, and women should be a compliment to a good life, not the focus of it. Keep going with all your other stuff, and let the women come. The more you chase something, the more it'll escape.
 
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