"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
am i the only one who doesn't like licking a girl out?
- Thread starter tony-montana
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tony-montana
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@ STR8UP - I agree 100% with everything you said.
@ azanon - that vid is just sick
about eating ass - done it, like it doing it (with the right conditions) and like having it done. And if you haven't had a girl lick your ass - you are missing out - gotta find a filthy one though!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Sh1t I've talked girls into having porno-type sex and you'd be amazed the freaky crap you will do if the girl is hot and smells and such don't factor in. Me and this milf one time put down plastic tarp in her backyard and squirted baby oil all over it and went to town and did some downright nasty stuff, but at the time was cool as hell. I've never had a harder cack in my life, got off like 3 times in 30 minutes.
I got pi$$ed off one time with my last ex because she only ever wanted to do things to me, but wouldn't let me do stuff to her. I suppose she was embarrassed by it or whatever.
My current gf actually doesn't like it as she's extremely ticklish!