Am I super picky, or just shallow?

[kingwilliam]

I am never satisfied. I have met/dated/hooked up with literally dozens of women over the last few months and I have yet to meet one that I really like...


There is always some little flaw that turns me off.... ie,nose a little too big, needs to shed about 5-10 lbs, blah blah blah


I feel like I am just a shallow ass hole and I dont care about personality..... BUT I DO...... I just want both!! If I met a girl that I really got along with, who got all my jokes, and was a blast to hang out with -but she was not that hot..... I wouldnt date her..


Am I an ass hole?

 

[jophil28]

So do you mean that you have rejected ALL of these women. NO nookie ?

 

[Demodulate]

I use to wonder if I was shallow for holding out to meet a girl who met most of my criteria.

Then I met one.. and I felt all the better for not settling for something else..

Don't settle..

if you have a high standard stick to it.. when the right girl comes along you will be happy you waited..

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear King Billy,
Picky?Perish the thought!!You are merely being discerning...You have a bucket list and you won't settle for less....Good for you....So I agree with Demodulate,but also carry a brief for the Old Jophil,who seems to be suggesting that just because these Ladies don't quite fill the bill,is no reason to deprive yourself.

 

[kingwilliam]

No, I didnt reject any of these women lol..... I just dont see any long term potential.

I still hang out with them and get laid as often as possible

 

[Miles28]

Demodulate,

That's great that you found the perfect woman for you.

Kingwilliam I know what you mean about being picky, I'm exactly the same. The thing is the whole noticing a flaw thing doesn't kick in with me until I've slept with them a couple of times. Then I'll notice that tits aren't big enough, nose is big, ass isn't a great shape, etc.

Am worried that I want perfection and it's going to be difficult to find. The women I really like are the 10s but getting them isn't so easy. Basically want a girl who is 5ft 8 or taller, olive skin, dark eyes, big jugs, pretty face and a great ass. Problem is I'm in ****ing Japan so there might be 3 or 4 women matching that description in the whole of Tokyo!! Goddamit.

 

[JonSirG]

WORK on YOURSELF
to attract hotter girls

 

[Demodulate]

Demodulate,

That's great that you found the perfect woman for you.

I wouldn't say she is perfect.. I don't think there is a "perfect" woman..

but she checks off enough of my wants for me to overlook some of her flaws..

for sure I have dated "hotter" girls.. but she isn't bat sh!t insane, and its a nice change..

 

[Miles28]

Demodulate

Lol. I know what you mean. Have been dating a lot recently after being in an LTR for many years. So far 95% of the women I have dated have been bats*it insane. Before I started dating so much I thought it would be the other way round, i.e 5% crazed and 95% sane.

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