"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Am i shallow?

Cinamon

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A new guy started at work a few weeks ago, who is really cute. We have met a few times on the landing in reception etc and flirted. We seem to get on ok, but with it being ramadhan we didnt really have the option of going out for a quick drink after work.

With the poor diet in Ramadhan, my tummy has got a little doughy, so I have been hitting the pool every morning before work, to tighten it up again. Anyway, this morning he decided to join me for a morning swim. We were just messing about in the pool, and i was just looking for an excuse to touch his pecks.... and thats when i noticed it. The guy has a third nipple on his left abdomen, and i tried not to look at it, but my eyes were just fixated on it. All of a sudden I dont want to touch his body. I know this is probably very shallow of me, but it just makes me cringe.

Has anyone experienced this before? and is there anything i can do about it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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snackwitch

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Cinamon said:
A new guy started at work a few weeks ago, who is really cute. We have met a few times on the landing in reception etc and flirted. We seem to get on ok, but with it being ramadhan we didnt really have the option of going out for a quick drink after work.

With the poor diet in Ramadhan, my tummy has got a little doughy, so I have been hitting the pool every morning before work, to tighten it up again. Anyway, this morning he decided to join me for a morning swim. We were just messing about in the pool, and i was just looking for an excuse to touch his pecks.... and thats when i noticed it. The guy has a third nipple on his left abdomen, and i tried not to look at it, but my eyes were just fixated on it. All of a sudden I dont want to touch his body. I know this is probably very shallow of me, but it just makes me cringe.

Has anyone experienced this before? and is there anything i can do about it?
how do you know its an extra nipple and not a mole?

If its a part of his body, there's not much you can do about it.. without a scalpel
 

Ridingthelightning

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It is shallow, but is that so bad?
You obviously just want him for his body anyhow, and if its unappealing to you now then who cares? Can I get a 'next'?
 
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