"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Am i shallow?

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A new guy started at work a few weeks ago, who is really cute. We have met a few times on the landing in reception etc and flirted. We seem to get on ok, but with it being ramadhan we didnt really have the option of going out for a quick drink after work.

With the poor diet in Ramadhan, my tummy has got a little doughy, so I have been hitting the pool every morning before work, to tighten it up again. Anyway, this morning he decided to join me for a morning swim. We were just messing about in the pool, and i was just looking for an excuse to touch his pecks.... and thats when i noticed it. The guy has a third nipple on his left abdomen, and i tried not to look at it, but my eyes were just fixated on it. All of a sudden I dont want to touch his body. I know this is probably very shallow of me, but it just makes me cringe.

Has anyone experienced this before? and is there anything i can do about it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cinamon said:
A new guy started at work a few weeks ago, who is really cute. We have met a few times on the landing in reception etc and flirted. We seem to get on ok, but with it being ramadhan we didnt really have the option of going out for a quick drink after work.

With the poor diet in Ramadhan, my tummy has got a little doughy, so I have been hitting the pool every morning before work, to tighten it up again. Anyway, this morning he decided to join me for a morning swim. We were just messing about in the pool, and i was just looking for an excuse to touch his pecks.... and thats when i noticed it. The guy has a third nipple on his left abdomen, and i tried not to look at it, but my eyes were just fixated on it. All of a sudden I dont want to touch his body. I know this is probably very shallow of me, but it just makes me cringe.

Has anyone experienced this before? and is there anything i can do about it?
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how do you know its an extra nipple and not a mole?

If its a part of his body, there's not much you can do about it.. without a scalpel
 
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It is shallow, but is that so bad?
You obviously just want him for his body anyhow, and if its unappealing to you now then who cares? Can I get a 'next'?
 
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