“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Am i shallow?

Cinamon

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A new guy started at work a few weeks ago, who is really cute. We have met a few times on the landing in reception etc and flirted. We seem to get on ok, but with it being ramadhan we didnt really have the option of going out for a quick drink after work.

With the poor diet in Ramadhan, my tummy has got a little doughy, so I have been hitting the pool every morning before work, to tighten it up again. Anyway, this morning he decided to join me for a morning swim. We were just messing about in the pool, and i was just looking for an excuse to touch his pecks.... and thats when i noticed it. The guy has a third nipple on his left abdomen, and i tried not to look at it, but my eyes were just fixated on it. All of a sudden I dont want to touch his body. I know this is probably very shallow of me, but it just makes me cringe.

Has anyone experienced this before? and is there anything i can do about it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cinamon said:
A new guy started at work a few weeks ago, who is really cute. We have met a few times on the landing in reception etc and flirted. We seem to get on ok, but with it being ramadhan we didnt really have the option of going out for a quick drink after work.

With the poor diet in Ramadhan, my tummy has got a little doughy, so I have been hitting the pool every morning before work, to tighten it up again. Anyway, this morning he decided to join me for a morning swim. We were just messing about in the pool, and i was just looking for an excuse to touch his pecks.... and thats when i noticed it. The guy has a third nipple on his left abdomen, and i tried not to look at it, but my eyes were just fixated on it. All of a sudden I dont want to touch his body. I know this is probably very shallow of me, but it just makes me cringe.

Has anyone experienced this before? and is there anything i can do about it?
how do you know its an extra nipple and not a mole?

If its a part of his body, there's not much you can do about it.. without a scalpel
 

Ridingthelightning

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It is shallow, but is that so bad?
You obviously just want him for his body anyhow, and if its unappealing to you now then who cares? Can I get a 'next'?
 
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