Everybody seems to know my name-at school, library, neighborhood, park and lots of places I go. I walk down the street, people throw me daps and shout out my name. I'm a good basketball player and freestyler and have never lost a battle. Even the cute girls say hi to me and wave and smile. Am I popular/cool?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Am I popular/cool?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NeW2TheGame
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I don't know what you are trying to achieve by asking this question.
My guess is you are either a) bragging, or b) trying to make youself feel better.
My guess is you are either a) bragging, or b) trying to make youself feel better.
Skilla_Staz
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Hm. I'm sensing hostility.
Was this honestly a question, or just a pointless thread? Or, could it have been a thread that was intended to make fun of AFC folks?
Was this honestly a question, or just a pointless thread? Or, could it have been a thread that was intended to make fun of AFC folks?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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You're cooler than me.
Which is alot.
Now stfu or diaf.
Which is alot.
Now stfu or diaf.
Yes. Isn't the guy who sits at his computer and brags the stereotypical cool jock who gets girls?Arsinel said:Am I popular/cool?
phatboi408
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I dont care if your cool/popular or not. Describe cool and popular. Those two words mean different things to different people. Maybe you are not cool to my standards or where I live in. But you could be "cool" somewhere else.
You already know if your popular or cool or not, we can't say that. But I think your not popular and not cool. So stop saying if I'm cool/popular or not because we don't care on this website. We just want to improve.
You already know if your popular or cool or not, we can't say that. But I think your not popular and not cool. So stop saying if I'm cool/popular or not because we don't care on this website. We just want to improve.
to answer your question being popular and being well known are two different things, even if everybody knows who you are, it doesnt mean that your popular , just means that people know who you are....
hey a kid in my old shcool got caught jacking off in the girls shower , and everybody knew who he was after that ... didnt make him popular just made him well known....
being popular is like everybody wanting to hang with you , everybody invites you to everything and everybody looks up to you.... if you are all these things them your popular.....
hey a kid in my old shcool got caught jacking off in the girls shower , and everybody knew who he was after that ... didnt make him popular just made him well known....
being popular is like everybody wanting to hang with you , everybody invites you to everything and everybody looks up to you.... if you are all these things them your popular.....
phatboi408
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Morphiex said:hey a kid in my old shcool got caught jacking off in the girls shower , and everybody knew who he was after that ... didnt make him popular just made him well known....
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What the heck?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
dannowillbookem
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my buddha asks: does it matter?
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I say don't concern yourself with "Am I popular". Popularity isn't all its cut out to be. You get some weird people wanting to be your friends just because you're a part of the "in" crowd.
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