Everybody seems to know my name-at school, library, neighborhood, park and lots of places I go. I walk down the street, people throw me daps and shout out my name. I'm a good basketball player and freestyler and have never lost a battle. Even the cute girls say hi to me and wave and smile. Am I popular/cool?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Am I popular/cool?
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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I don't know what you are trying to achieve by asking this question.
My guess is you are either a) bragging, or b) trying to make youself feel better.
My guess is you are either a) bragging, or b) trying to make youself feel better.
Skilla_Staz
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Hm. I'm sensing hostility.
Was this honestly a question, or just a pointless thread? Or, could it have been a thread that was intended to make fun of AFC folks?
Was this honestly a question, or just a pointless thread? Or, could it have been a thread that was intended to make fun of AFC folks?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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You're cooler than me.
Which is alot.
Now stfu or diaf.
Which is alot.
Now stfu or diaf.
Yes. Isn't the guy who sits at his computer and brags the stereotypical cool jock who gets girls?Arsinel said:Am I popular/cool?
phatboi408
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I dont care if your cool/popular or not. Describe cool and popular. Those two words mean different things to different people. Maybe you are not cool to my standards or where I live in. But you could be "cool" somewhere else.
You already know if your popular or cool or not, we can't say that. But I think your not popular and not cool. So stop saying if I'm cool/popular or not because we don't care on this website. We just want to improve.
You already know if your popular or cool or not, we can't say that. But I think your not popular and not cool. So stop saying if I'm cool/popular or not because we don't care on this website. We just want to improve.
to answer your question being popular and being well known are two different things, even if everybody knows who you are, it doesnt mean that your popular , just means that people know who you are....
hey a kid in my old shcool got caught jacking off in the girls shower , and everybody knew who he was after that ... didnt make him popular just made him well known....
being popular is like everybody wanting to hang with you , everybody invites you to everything and everybody looks up to you.... if you are all these things them your popular.....
hey a kid in my old shcool got caught jacking off in the girls shower , and everybody knew who he was after that ... didnt make him popular just made him well known....
being popular is like everybody wanting to hang with you , everybody invites you to everything and everybody looks up to you.... if you are all these things them your popular.....
phatboi408
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Morphiex said:hey a kid in my old shcool got caught jacking off in the girls shower , and everybody knew who he was after that ... didnt make him popular just made him well known....
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What the heck?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
my buddha asks: does it matter?
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I say don't concern yourself with "Am I popular". Popularity isn't all its cut out to be. You get some weird people wanting to be your friends just because you're a part of the "in" crowd.
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