Everybody seems to know my name-at school, library, neighborhood, park and lots of places I go. I walk down the street, people throw me daps and shout out my name. I'm a good basketball player and freestyler and have never lost a battle. Even the cute girls say hi to me and wave and smile. Am I popular/cool?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Am I popular/cool?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NeW2TheGame
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I don't know what you are trying to achieve by asking this question.
My guess is you are either a) bragging, or b) trying to make youself feel better.
My guess is you are either a) bragging, or b) trying to make youself feel better.
Skilla_Staz
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Hm. I'm sensing hostility.
Was this honestly a question, or just a pointless thread? Or, could it have been a thread that was intended to make fun of AFC folks?
Was this honestly a question, or just a pointless thread? Or, could it have been a thread that was intended to make fun of AFC folks?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You're cooler than me.
Which is alot.
Now stfu or diaf.
Which is alot.
Now stfu or diaf.
Yes. Isn't the guy who sits at his computer and brags the stereotypical cool jock who gets girls?Arsinel said:Am I popular/cool?
phatboi408
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I dont care if your cool/popular or not. Describe cool and popular. Those two words mean different things to different people. Maybe you are not cool to my standards or where I live in. But you could be "cool" somewhere else.
You already know if your popular or cool or not, we can't say that. But I think your not popular and not cool. So stop saying if I'm cool/popular or not because we don't care on this website. We just want to improve.
You already know if your popular or cool or not, we can't say that. But I think your not popular and not cool. So stop saying if I'm cool/popular or not because we don't care on this website. We just want to improve.
to answer your question being popular and being well known are two different things, even if everybody knows who you are, it doesnt mean that your popular , just means that people know who you are....
hey a kid in my old shcool got caught jacking off in the girls shower , and everybody knew who he was after that ... didnt make him popular just made him well known....
being popular is like everybody wanting to hang with you , everybody invites you to everything and everybody looks up to you.... if you are all these things them your popular.....
hey a kid in my old shcool got caught jacking off in the girls shower , and everybody knew who he was after that ... didnt make him popular just made him well known....
being popular is like everybody wanting to hang with you , everybody invites you to everything and everybody looks up to you.... if you are all these things them your popular.....
phatboi408
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Morphiex said:hey a kid in my old shcool got caught jacking off in the girls shower , and everybody knew who he was after that ... didnt make him popular just made him well known....
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What the heck?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
my buddha asks: does it matter?
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I say don't concern yourself with "Am I popular". Popularity isn't all its cut out to be. You get some weird people wanting to be your friends just because you're a part of the "in" crowd.
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