Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Am I playing this right?

sandeep

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Theres this girl in my school that you could maybe say shes my girlfriend.We talk a lot,but I give myself a lot of space and I'm never too needy or anything.I tease her a lot also and I think thats why shes attracted to me.Anyways people understand that theres something between us,well most ppl.
Heres the problem:While I'm talking to her guys would who I know,well the setting is in the skool library,would come and sit there and start to hit on her right in front of me.My reaction,well I just play it cool like I'm not affected by it and I'm not really affected by it but I would like to talk to her alone cuz it's not like I talk to her all the time.The other thing is that this girls well shes a 'sunshine girl' and because of that a lot of guys think shes easy and she wouldn't tell them shes not interested cuz she doesn't want to 'hurt their feelings'.She never told me that,its just that I know how she thinks.
Well sometimes she would mention certain guys and I would tease her about her liking them.So how do u guys think I should handle this?Should I just ignore the guys and tease her about them and stuff like that?Cuz I dont want to seem needy or anything like that cuz I'm not.Well I would appreciate your thoughts on this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AustinG

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tease her about them.. what the hell is a sunshine girl?
 

sandeep

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AustinG said:
tease her about them.. what the hell is a sunshine girl?
A sunshine girl is a girl who brightens everyones day,u know the type who is always kinda giving everyone iois.
 

djweses89

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ugh dude the other guys shouldnt ever be a factor need to prove to her that your something special and that they dont even matter. And like who ever it was said dont just talk make a move sometime soon too let her know your intrested.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LesaneCrooks

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just to let you know, typing your questions like a retard makes me think you may actually be retarded. That is possibly the worst English i have ever seen in my life.

By the way, if you dont give a **** about these guys then you wouldnt be asking the question. If you do give a ****, why dont you ask her out and stop being one of her good "friends".
 

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Anyways,u guys need not reply anymore cuz I'm going abroad to study n the girl is gonna be here so never mind it.
 
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