"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Am I playing this right?

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Theres this girl in my school that you could maybe say shes my girlfriend.We talk a lot,but I give myself a lot of space and I'm never too needy or anything.I tease her a lot also and I think thats why shes attracted to me.Anyways people understand that theres something between us,well most ppl.
Heres the problem:While I'm talking to her guys would who I know,well the setting is in the skool library,would come and sit there and start to hit on her right in front of me.My reaction,well I just play it cool like I'm not affected by it and I'm not really affected by it but I would like to talk to her alone cuz it's not like I talk to her all the time.The other thing is that this girls well shes a 'sunshine girl' and because of that a lot of guys think shes easy and she wouldn't tell them shes not interested cuz she doesn't want to 'hurt their feelings'.She never told me that,its just that I know how she thinks.
Well sometimes she would mention certain guys and I would tease her about her liking them.So how do u guys think I should handle this?Should I just ignore the guys and tease her about them and stuff like that?Cuz I dont want to seem needy or anything like that cuz I'm not.Well I would appreciate your thoughts on this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tease her about them.. what the hell is a sunshine girl?
 
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AustinG said:
tease her about them.. what the hell is a sunshine girl?
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A sunshine girl is a girl who brightens everyones day,u know the type who is always kinda giving everyone iois.
 
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ugh dude the other guys shouldnt ever be a factor need to prove to her that your something special and that they dont even matter. And like who ever it was said dont just talk make a move sometime soon too let her know your intrested.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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just to let you know, typing your questions like a retard makes me think you may actually be retarded. That is possibly the worst English i have ever seen in my life.

By the way, if you dont give a **** about these guys then you wouldnt be asking the question. If you do give a ****, why dont you ask her out and stop being one of her good "friends".
 
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Anyways,u guys need not reply anymore cuz I'm going abroad to study n the girl is gonna be here so never mind it.
 
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