"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I playing this right?

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Theres this girl in my school that you could maybe say shes my girlfriend.We talk a lot,but I give myself a lot of space and I'm never too needy or anything.I tease her a lot also and I think thats why shes attracted to me.Anyways people understand that theres something between us,well most ppl.
Heres the problem:While I'm talking to her guys would who I know,well the setting is in the skool library,would come and sit there and start to hit on her right in front of me.My reaction,well I just play it cool like I'm not affected by it and I'm not really affected by it but I would like to talk to her alone cuz it's not like I talk to her all the time.The other thing is that this girls well shes a 'sunshine girl' and because of that a lot of guys think shes easy and she wouldn't tell them shes not interested cuz she doesn't want to 'hurt their feelings'.She never told me that,its just that I know how she thinks.
Well sometimes she would mention certain guys and I would tease her about her liking them.So how do u guys think I should handle this?Should I just ignore the guys and tease her about them and stuff like that?Cuz I dont want to seem needy or anything like that cuz I'm not.Well I would appreciate your thoughts on this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tease her about them.. what the hell is a sunshine girl?
 
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AustinG said:
tease her about them.. what the hell is a sunshine girl?
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A sunshine girl is a girl who brightens everyones day,u know the type who is always kinda giving everyone iois.
 
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ugh dude the other guys shouldnt ever be a factor need to prove to her that your something special and that they dont even matter. And like who ever it was said dont just talk make a move sometime soon too let her know your intrested.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just to let you know, typing your questions like a retard makes me think you may actually be retarded. That is possibly the worst English i have ever seen in my life.

By the way, if you dont give a **** about these guys then you wouldnt be asking the question. If you do give a ****, why dont you ask her out and stop being one of her good "friends".
 
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Anyways,u guys need not reply anymore cuz I'm going abroad to study n the girl is gonna be here so never mind it.
 
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