"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I met this girl in a club back on the 1st of July. SHe's from out of town, but we had a great time hanging/making out until early in the morning. I got her number and told her I would give her a call.

I called her this past thursday on my break from work and we had a good little conversation that I had to cut short since I had to get back to work. She lives about 2 hours away and I mentioned that I might be in town on sunday since my roomate lives there and we might possibly make the trip up. SHe mentioned that some of her friends were leaving town for a week, but she'd be around. Told her I would call her later on and let her know where I'd be this weekend.

The thing is that the only reason I would've made a trip up there would've been to see her. The roomate thing was just an excuse. Course, I never told her that.

Some friend s of mine from out of town popped in unexpectedly so I want to hang with them this weekend. I haven't called the girl back because I'm not exactly sure what I should tell her. I mean, is it a big deal to wait another week before going up to see her? I'm just wondering if waiting will cause her interest level to fall since we've only ever hung out one time which was over a week ago now.

What do you think I should do? Btw, how often should I be talking to her on the phone. Only had the one short conversation so far. really like her though. Let me know.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by mecca411
I met this girl in a club back on the 1st of July. SHe's from out of town, but we had a great time hanging/making out until early in the morning. I got her number and told her I would give her a call.

I called her this past thursday on my break from work and we had a good little conversation that I had to cut short since I had to get back to work. She lives about 2 hours away and I mentioned that I might be in town on sunday since my roomate lives there and we might possibly make the trip up. SHe mentioned that some of her friends were leaving town for a week, but she'd be around. Told her I would call her later on and let her know where I'd be this weekend.

The thing is that the only reason I would've made a trip up there would've been to see her. The roomate thing was just an excuse. Course, I never told her that.

Some friend s of mine from out of town popped in unexpectedly so I want to hang with them this weekend. I haven't called the girl back because I'm not exactly sure what I should tell her. I mean, is it a big deal to wait another week before going up to see her? I'm just wondering if waiting will cause her interest level to fall since we've only ever hung out one time which was over a week ago now.

What do you think I should do? Btw, how often should I be talking to her on the phone. Only had the one short conversation so far. really like her though. Let me know.
If your frineds are only here for this weekend I'd go with them and tell her something came up, and you'll get in touch with her as soon as you can. Guys before girls.
 

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yup. Guys before girls
 

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I called her phone at 8:40 pm and got her message machine. Is it ok to leave messages at this point? I wasn't sure so I just hung up.
 
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Save this girl for next week/another time and try to meet some other women closer to home this weekend since your buds are in town

Call her and do a *67 before dialing and when you get her on the phone tell her you'll have to try again next week that something came up and then ask her to meet you half way if possible.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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