"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SpazzAttackk

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This no contact thing. Some of you probably read my post about a week and a half back about how the girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood, resulting in me having to always travel.

I told her its her turn to come down, no questions asked. I was stern enough when I told her. She said she has work and didnt bother making a raincheck. So is this how NC starts? I love how facebook shows if youve read the message or not. Anywho, I dont plan on talking to her until she rainchecks or shows some effort. I dont chase


Edit: Okay, the jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood

jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.

No your not doing it right. This is where your break up not go NC. Obviously did a poor job screening if you got into a LTR with a girl who wont come to your house. Say "this relationship is not for me" and move on. Get busy doing something else...im guessing you wont though because your in a frame of scarcity right now or else you wouldnt have put up with this.
 
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TheException said:
girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood

jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.

No your not doing it right. This is where your break up not go NC. Obviously did a poor job screening if you got into a LTR with a girl who wont come to your house. Say "this relationship is not for me" and move on. Get busy doing something else...im guessing you wont though because your in a frame of scarcity right now or else you wouldnt have put up with this.
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Yeah youre actually right. Im in a position where (for the moment) I cant really socialize with anyone.
 
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