Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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SpazzAttackk

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This no contact thing. Some of you probably read my post about a week and a half back about how the girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood, resulting in me having to always travel.

I told her its her turn to come down, no questions asked. I was stern enough when I told her. She said she has work and didnt bother making a raincheck. So is this how NC starts? I love how facebook shows if youve read the message or not. Anywho, I dont plan on talking to her until she rainchecks or shows some effort. I dont chase


Edit: Okay, the jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood

jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.

No your not doing it right. This is where your break up not go NC. Obviously did a poor job screening if you got into a LTR with a girl who wont come to your house. Say "this relationship is not for me" and move on. Get busy doing something else...im guessing you wont though because your in a frame of scarcity right now or else you wouldnt have put up with this.
 
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TheException said:
girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood

jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.

No your not doing it right. This is where your break up not go NC. Obviously did a poor job screening if you got into a LTR with a girl who wont come to your house. Say "this relationship is not for me" and move on. Get busy doing something else...im guessing you wont though because your in a frame of scarcity right now or else you wouldnt have put up with this.
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Yeah youre actually right. Im in a position where (for the moment) I cant really socialize with anyone.
 
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