"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SpazzAttackk

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This no contact thing. Some of you probably read my post about a week and a half back about how the girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood, resulting in me having to always travel.

I told her its her turn to come down, no questions asked. I was stern enough when I told her. She said she has work and didnt bother making a raincheck. So is this how NC starts? I love how facebook shows if youve read the message or not. Anywho, I dont plan on talking to her until she rainchecks or shows some effort. I dont chase


Edit: Okay, the jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood

jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.

No your not doing it right. This is where your break up not go NC. Obviously did a poor job screening if you got into a LTR with a girl who wont come to your house. Say "this relationship is not for me" and move on. Get busy doing something else...im guessing you wont though because your in a frame of scarcity right now or else you wouldnt have put up with this.
 
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TheException said:
girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood

jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.

No your not doing it right. This is where your break up not go NC. Obviously did a poor job screening if you got into a LTR with a girl who wont come to your house. Say "this relationship is not for me" and move on. Get busy doing something else...im guessing you wont though because your in a frame of scarcity right now or else you wouldnt have put up with this.
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Yeah youre actually right. Im in a position where (for the moment) I cant really socialize with anyone.
 
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