"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SpazzAttackk

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This no contact thing. Some of you probably read my post about a week and a half back about how the girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood, resulting in me having to always travel.

I told her its her turn to come down, no questions asked. I was stern enough when I told her. She said she has work and didnt bother making a raincheck. So is this how NC starts? I love how facebook shows if youve read the message or not. Anywho, I dont plan on talking to her until she rainchecks or shows some effort. I dont chase


Edit: Okay, the jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood

jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.

No your not doing it right. This is where your break up not go NC. Obviously did a poor job screening if you got into a LTR with a girl who wont come to your house. Say "this relationship is not for me" and move on. Get busy doing something else...im guessing you wont though because your in a frame of scarcity right now or else you wouldnt have put up with this.
 
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TheException said:
girl im in an LTR with wont come to my neighborhood

jealousy bug in me has manifested. Shes talking to some big lightskin guy on facebook. They just made plans today. Shes playing games. Ill hold true to the NC though. Fvck.

No your not doing it right. This is where your break up not go NC. Obviously did a poor job screening if you got into a LTR with a girl who wont come to your house. Say "this relationship is not for me" and move on. Get busy doing something else...im guessing you wont though because your in a frame of scarcity right now or else you wouldnt have put up with this.
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Yeah youre actually right. Im in a position where (for the moment) I cant really socialize with anyone.
 
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