It's a lot easier for girls to get dates because guys do the approaching. Us men it's not as easy. Many of us work a lot, etc, long commutes and such. Just don't get a chance to get out much or go places to meet them when working 50 hours a week and other stuff.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Am I doing Bumble wrong? Give me tips! I'm shutout.
- Thread starter biggoal
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That's the lame-mess excuse I've often hear.
Men who worked long hours were fvcking around when there was no OLD apps in the 60's, 70's, 80's and 90's. Fact and cannot be disputed.
RickTheToad
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No one ever said the truth was an easy thing to understand and/or accept. It's hard for a lot of people to accept. It's just part of life.