"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Am I being to hard on myself?

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saber

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I posted a thread about this a while back but i have to ask again...please read

Basically this girl got hired to work under me at this store. Sooo, we are working one on one about three times a week.

I really want to make a move on this chick but im holding back and at the same time kicking myself for it.

The reasons I dont want to try anything is..

she mentioned she has a boyfriend (this usually doesn't stop me since i can just blow her off if she don't bite)

She works for me so its hard to tell what motivates her friendly demeanor

she is admittadly a little shy and im not sure how to break out the physical stuff during work


the reasons for trying are...

she is super cute and very pleasant

......


I want to just grab her hand...then if she responds well kiss her, but that could make the work situation a bit awkward if things don't work out...

honestly im suprised i haven't done anything yet...im almost 100% positive i am gonna try something so advice is greatly appreciated.


also!! the place we work is an hour or two from my house so i cant just invite her to hang out after work or something easy like that...


idk what the fvck to do....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Big B

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I would leave it alone. Don't get involved with a woman that you work with, especially one that you work so close with. Take you own words and know that it would create a very awkward situation at work if things were not the same for her. Trust me, I have been there and done that. NOT A GOOD IDEA.
 
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DonJoseCantosie

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what Big B said, i mean i personally dont' try to get with girls from work BUT u could try it, just be aware the risks and consequences associated with it.
 
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Kestrel

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First of all it is not honorable to use your position to try and get this girl who appearantly made it clear she has a boyfriend. If you do try something, I can tell you it isn't going to work out, you just end up creating an awkward situation for the both of you. Worst, her boyfriend finds out.
 
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