“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Am I being to hard on myself?

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saber

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I posted a thread about this a while back but i have to ask again...please read

Basically this girl got hired to work under me at this store. Sooo, we are working one on one about three times a week.

I really want to make a move on this chick but im holding back and at the same time kicking myself for it.

The reasons I dont want to try anything is..

she mentioned she has a boyfriend (this usually doesn't stop me since i can just blow her off if she don't bite)

She works for me so its hard to tell what motivates her friendly demeanor

she is admittadly a little shy and im not sure how to break out the physical stuff during work


the reasons for trying are...

she is super cute and very pleasant

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I want to just grab her hand...then if she responds well kiss her, but that could make the work situation a bit awkward if things don't work out...

honestly im suprised i haven't done anything yet...im almost 100% positive i am gonna try something so advice is greatly appreciated.


also!! the place we work is an hour or two from my house so i cant just invite her to hang out after work or something easy like that...


idk what the fvck to do....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Big B

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I would leave it alone. Don't get involved with a woman that you work with, especially one that you work so close with. Take you own words and know that it would create a very awkward situation at work if things were not the same for her. Trust me, I have been there and done that. NOT A GOOD IDEA.
 
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DonJoseCantosie

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what Big B said, i mean i personally dont' try to get with girls from work BUT u could try it, just be aware the risks and consequences associated with it.
 
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First of all it is not honorable to use your position to try and get this girl who appearantly made it clear she has a boyfriend. If you do try something, I can tell you it isn't going to work out, you just end up creating an awkward situation for the both of you. Worst, her boyfriend finds out.
 
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