Am I being to hard on myself?

[saber]

I posted a thread about this a while back but i have to ask again...please read

Basically this girl got hired to work under me at this store. Sooo, we are working one on one about three times a week.

I really want to make a move on this chick but im holding back and at the same time kicking myself for it.

The reasons I dont want to try anything is..

she mentioned she has a boyfriend (this usually doesn't stop me since i can just blow her off if she don't bite)

She works for me so its hard to tell what motivates her friendly demeanor

she is admittadly a little shy and im not sure how to break out the physical stuff during work


the reasons for trying are...

she is super cute and very pleasant

......


I want to just grab her hand...then if she responds well kiss her, but that could make the work situation a bit awkward if things don't work out...

honestly im suprised i haven't done anything yet...im almost 100% positive i am gonna try something so advice is greatly appreciated.


also!! the place we work is an hour or two from my house so i cant just invite her to hang out after work or something easy like that...


idk what the fvck to do....

 

[Big B]

I would leave it alone. Don't get involved with a woman that you work with, especially one that you work so close with. Take you own words and know that it would create a very awkward situation at work if things were not the same for her. Trust me, I have been there and done that. NOT A GOOD IDEA.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

what Big B said, i mean i personally dont' try to get with girls from work BUT u could try it, just be aware the risks and consequences associated with it.

 

[Kestrel]

First of all it is not honorable to use your position to try and get this girl who appearantly made it clear she has a boyfriend. If you do try something, I can tell you it isn't going to work out, you just end up creating an awkward situation for the both of you. Worst, her boyfriend finds out.