"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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am i being petty .

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MY GF of some months did some **** that i do not know how to handle.

i do not have any red flags shes very caring, aways texting me to hang out, etc..

we were going to celebrate her b.day, we taked about the event things we could do etc..

she makes a fb event, invites EVERYONE BUT forgets to invite me. when i say everyone i mean everyone including the other people she panned the party with...

im puzzled
bc. ike i said i see no indication of Iow interest...

coud it be that i shoudnt be the center of her word 24 7...but she certainy didnt forget about other friends.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Your tripping over a Facebook page event?

Your seriously tripping hard. You shouldn't give a rats a$$ about a facebook event invite.....
 
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i am. its bugging the **** out of me.
but i obviously DO NOT need to make a thing out of this...
 
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First off. Do what I did and delete your facebook.

Next, she obviously just assumes your coming. Stop tripping before she sees you as desperate, needy, and whiny.
 
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TitanSS said:
Next, she obviously just assumes your coming. Stop tripping before she sees you as desperate, needy, and whiny.
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Exactly! You need to stop being a drama queen, especially over trivialities like this or you're going to find dating and relationships very difficult.

Be cool man! :cool:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thatfeel21

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Umm....if youre her bf then shes assuming that youre already there! Dont be a d*** and not show up just cuz she didnt officially f-book invite" you. Sounds like youre still in HS
 
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Does your girlfriend or best friend REALLY need to add you on the invite list on FB? Don't take FB so seriously.
 
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