"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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am i being petty .

Websterdic

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MY GF of some months did some **** that i do not know how to handle.

i do not have any red flags shes very caring, aways texting me to hang out, etc..

we were going to celebrate her b.day, we taked about the event things we could do etc..

she makes a fb event, invites EVERYONE BUT forgets to invite me. when i say everyone i mean everyone including the other people she panned the party with...

im puzzled
bc. ike i said i see no indication of Iow interest...

coud it be that i shoudnt be the center of her word 24 7...but she certainy didnt forget about other friends.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Your tripping over a Facebook page event?

Your seriously tripping hard. You shouldn't give a rats a$$ about a facebook event invite.....
 

Websterdic

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i am. its bugging the **** out of me.
but i obviously DO NOT need to make a thing out of this...
 

TitanSS

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First off. Do what I did and delete your facebook.

Next, she obviously just assumes your coming. Stop tripping before she sees you as desperate, needy, and whiny.
 

Jariel

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TitanSS said:
Next, she obviously just assumes your coming. Stop tripping before she sees you as desperate, needy, and whiny.
Exactly! You need to stop being a drama queen, especially over trivialities like this or you're going to find dating and relationships very difficult.

Be cool man! :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thatfeel21

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Umm....if youre her bf then shes assuming that youre already there! Dont be a d*** and not show up just cuz she didnt officially f-book invite" you. Sounds like youre still in HS
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Does your girlfriend or best friend REALLY need to add you on the invite list on FB? Don't take FB so seriously.
 
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