"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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am i being petty .

Websterdic

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MY GF of some months did some **** that i do not know how to handle.

i do not have any red flags shes very caring, aways texting me to hang out, etc..

we were going to celebrate her b.day, we taked about the event things we could do etc..

she makes a fb event, invites EVERYONE BUT forgets to invite me. when i say everyone i mean everyone including the other people she panned the party with...

im puzzled
bc. ike i said i see no indication of Iow interest...

coud it be that i shoudnt be the center of her word 24 7...but she certainy didnt forget about other friends.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Your tripping over a Facebook page event?

Your seriously tripping hard. You shouldn't give a rats a$$ about a facebook event invite.....
 

Websterdic

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i am. its bugging the **** out of me.
but i obviously DO NOT need to make a thing out of this...
 

TitanSS

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First off. Do what I did and delete your facebook.

Next, she obviously just assumes your coming. Stop tripping before she sees you as desperate, needy, and whiny.
 

Jariel

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TitanSS said:
Next, she obviously just assumes your coming. Stop tripping before she sees you as desperate, needy, and whiny.
Exactly! You need to stop being a drama queen, especially over trivialities like this or you're going to find dating and relationships very difficult.

Be cool man! :cool:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thatfeel21

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Umm....if youre her bf then shes assuming that youre already there! Dont be a d*** and not show up just cuz she didnt officially f-book invite" you. Sounds like youre still in HS
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Does your girlfriend or best friend REALLY need to add you on the invite list on FB? Don't take FB so seriously.
 
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