"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Am I Being Impatient?

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foolyoufool

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Hey guys, I had a plate I was seeing earlier this year reach out to me out of the blue last week. She had temporarily moved to florida for a few months:

Girl: Hey, it’s xx. I’m so excited, I’m heading back to LA today!
Me: Hey, that’s great! Let’s hang out once you are settled in.
Her: Alrighty, I’ll text ya.
Me: (thumbs up emoji)

This conversation happened last Thursday, Dec. 7th. Haven’t contacted her since. Should I reach out to set up drinks or wait for her? I’m also leaving town on Thursday for 10 days for the holidays.

Thanks guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lizardking82

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Forget about it. Move on. Next. "I'll text ya". She might text, she might not. There should not be a post about this one. Move on.
 
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