"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Always want Girls around, Can never be alone.

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Venom01

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Hey,

I have no problem picking up girls or meeting them, but my problem stems from not ever wanting to be alone. I always need a girl around and I'm not sure what my problem is. I guess i'm scared of being alone or something. But i want to be comfortable being alone and have a sense of independence.


I have friends, physically active and attractive.

Anyone know what i can do or search to help my situation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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The best thing to do would be to stop dating for a while. Take a few months off and avoid dating or any kind of intimacy. You need to find out what makes you tic, on your own and find happiness alone. Once you figure that out, you'll be fine with women or without 'em.
 
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Start investing in yourself - get your house/apartment clean, complete those projects you've been putting off. Learn something new - wine, a new language, whatever. Find something that really interests you - besides the latest Xbox game and set some time each day or every other day to do it.

You need to become more than you are and see how valuable YOU are.

Also -

Spin plates - I suffered from always wanting someone around as well and I've found that spinning plates helps.

Once I have more than 1 girl in the mix I know I have other options and don't "need" the 1 girl around all the time.




Just a couple of thoughts.
 
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